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Is it to soon to get his a promise ring?
dyer_tyler2009 asked:
I am seventeen and my girlfriend is nineteen years old .. i can already tell u shes the one and you just would have to see us togethor to understand but this christmas i wanna buy her a promise ring oucne she gets it wed be going out for 8 months! some ppl think thats long and some people think thats long..i just dont know..and whats a really sweet way to present her with her preasent?
I am seventeen and my girlfriend is nineteen years old .. i can already tell u shes the one and you just would have to see us togethor to understand but this christmas i wanna buy her a promise ring oucne she gets it wed be going out for 8 months! some ppl think thats long and some people think thats long..i just dont know..and whats a really sweet way to present her with her preasent?
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18. November 2008 at 4:36 pm :
aww no thats not to soon @ all! =]
make her dinner… and or breakfast or something and give it to her! =]
21. November 2008 at 6:15 pm :
if she seems to feel the same way I think its a great idea.
if I guy I cared a lot about did that for me I would be over joyed,
22. November 2008 at 7:45 am :
well no if ur really like him and knoe u can spent ur whole life wit him then u have nouthing to worry anout him but if u still have douts 4rm him them u should think about it more
23. November 2008 at 7:56 pm :
It is sweet! She will be thinking about it for 8 months!
People plan weeding for like two years,
25. November 2008 at 12:09 pm :
It depends on what that promise ring means to you, and to her. What are you promising? I think it is WAAAAY too soon to say that she is “the one”….it has ONLY been 8 months, and that is still not long enough to know for sure, especially since you are so young. So, go ahead and buy her a ring if you’d like and make some promises, but make sure you can keep them.
28. November 2008 at 2:54 am :
yeah you can do that, just tell her that this helps symbolize how much you care for her and that you love her in your life, but dont come on too strong and mention marriage or anything, good luck, glad you found someone so great!
30. November 2008 at 5:48 am :
one you’re too young and two don’t present the ring on a holiday…give it to her on a random day so she’ll always remeber it
but you guys haven’t been dating long enough at all…and people change alittle bit when they go to college too….me and my bf dated for a year and then broke up cuz of all the changes of college…now we’re back together but ya’ll are too young
1. December 2008 at 6:35 pm :
If you really tuly love her and want to stay pure for a promis ring, it’s not to soon. If you feel in your heart she is THE ONE, go for it!
Hope everything works out for u!
4. December 2008 at 6:56 pm :
It really depends on where your relationship stands. I got my promise ring when my boyfriend and I were dating for less than three months. We’ve been together for nearly four years now and intend on getting married.
About the present presentation - ah, I’m not really creative! Wish I could help you there, but just think of ways to surprise her.
6. December 2008 at 3:49 pm :
you should invite her out to dinner and act like it is another date, but do a bit extra something like flowers, a fancier restruant, or a trip to the movies and maybe jazz it up with a sleigh ride or something cute like that and when she says something like “could this night get any better?!” say yes and casually pull the ring/box with ring out of ur pocket and give it too her.
6. December 2008 at 4:35 pm :
what a hero!!
goin out with an older girl ;]
hahaha a promise ring? man ur still young.. dont be soo whipped
8. December 2008 at 2:57 pm :
it not to soon for a promise ring in fact Christmas is the best time to for it. so go for it nothing is stopping you. good luck
10. December 2008 at 1:52 am :
Loop a piece of thread through it and hang it on the christmas tree.
If you have the money to, Get it engraved that says something
really sweet.
And no, thats not too soon.
I was with a guy for 9 months and we were pretty serious.
But in another relationship I had with guy awhile back, I was with
him for 2 years and it wasn’t serious at all..
It’s not how long you’ve been together, it’s how much you care for
each other and how you two connect.
10. December 2008 at 10:44 pm :
If you know that she’d be interested in a promise ring (a lot of girls see them as juvenile and outdated–just a warning), then no, it’s not too soon. Keep in mind that a promise ring, in actuality, doesn’t mean a whole lot to most people. It means “I promise to promise to marry you eventually.” Many people give/receive many promise rings from/to many different people before they actually get engaged.
Why not give a ring that’s just a ring? It doesn’t have to have any meaning attached. Why make a pre-promise just because you’re not ready to make THE promise?
Anyway, in short, no it’s not inherently ‘too soon’ for you to give her an “I promise to promise to marry you eventually” ring. But no one can tell you whether SHE will think it’s too soon, or whether she will respond well to it.